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Wanting

Hi I'm sorta upset right now. I wish that I could go back to earlier this morning where the 'normal' me was but...I've been set off! I just want to bring up my child to the best of my ability but...For so long she pushes and pushes, stubbornly wanting to do what she wants to do ALL the time! If this is normal...WTF! But, if this is because it isn't, I just need a small break from all the pushing... Isn't it strange that younger people don't trust older people when it comes to life? I state that I'd prefer something to be held differently, for reasons (Like that of something obvious to be stolen or to help with the back) but the kid is like 'no, I want to do it this way'. Then there's 'don't do this while walking', to me it's obvious, it's NOT safe! But I sadly doubt the kid will keep up with it...When out of sight, the kid will probably do what they wanna do! Ok, perhaps I'm just that little bit more emotional then nor

The Blame Game

When ever has blaming someone actually been the solution to a problem? How long ago did blaming start? For how long will humans continue to blame others? Welcome to the Blame Game everybody! I am your host, TLCsDestiny and I'd like to just state: "The Blame Game is not a solution!" Anyway, I've recently been 'blamed' and it sucks. You know what I figured though!? Not only is blaming someone not a part of the solution but it also deters from finding the solution to the problem. People get emotional when blamed, some might not feel as much and able to get over it quickly but if it's about a very sensitive matter and has to do with family...It's a lose lose situation! Blaming someone has been around since day dot and it obviously 'Doesn't work!' But then, how do we overcome it? How do we not blame someone when we are angry!? I was told quite some time ago that anger is a secondary emotion. I believe that and think that the blame game could be

XP

Good Whatevers to you! So I had a thought of experience while watching a movie and I swear experience needed for a job is over rated! I don't say this without having thought and thought about as well as seeing this day and age people and the jobs that are around today, I say this with pure honesty that there should be an allowable opening for inexperienced people if...IF they show they are enthusistic and show that they have improved with something previously...Or something like that... The movie had someone do something without any prior experience and ended up being quite good at the job. Actually, the person was probably better at it then someone who had experience, and that is why I'm thinking that in some cases, as an employer, you should be able to look past experience and see the person. The person might not show regard in some way and make it easier for you to give up on them but if the person is practically begging and stating that they catch on quick and needs the job

Stepping Stone

Yoda! So, I've chosen a non stone colour...Which is probably because there is no brown...I suppose there's grey but...Who wants grey!? Are you like 'What is with the title?' 'How is she going to speak about this Stepping Stone?' Hehe, I'd love to leave you hanging but I'm ganna let it all out now... For a while, I've felt like a Stepping Stone. I've had people use me to advance in whatever (Most the time in relationships) but I think the real clincher to this is that I don't know if I should feel good about it or not lol. I mean, if I can speak to someone and my advice or ideas get used for them to move forward and actually smile, wouldn't that mean I've fulfilled a motive that I don't mind doing? Or...Should I be upset that I was used? It's stupid! I like the idea of writing about how some characters 'destiny's' are entwined and sorta used as a stepping stone. Like the queen in 'Tangled Fate: Harmony Entwined&