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The Blame Game

When ever has blaming someone actually been the solution to a problem? How long ago did blaming start? For how long will humans continue to blame others? Welcome to the Blame Game everybody! I am your host, TLCsDestiny and I'd like to just state: "The Blame Game is not a solution!" Anyway, I've recently been 'blamed' and it sucks. You know what I figured though!? Not only is blaming someone not a part of the solution but it also deters from finding the solution to the problem. People get emotional when blamed, some might not feel as much and able to get over it quickly but if it's about a very sensitive matter and has to do with family...It's a lose lose situation! Blaming someone has been around since day dot and it obviously 'Doesn't work!' But then, how do we overcome it? How do we not blame someone when we are angry!? I was told quite some time ago that anger is a secondary emotion. I believe that and think that the blame game could be ...